Putting a character together that will join a party somewhere between 6th and 9th level in a hybrid 3.5/pathfinder game (for those not familiar with PF don't worry about it, if a build mechanic works in 3.5 my DM will work with me to fit it into PF).
The title is misleading as I don't intend to take any actual bard levels, rather picking up 5th level bardic music from Heartfire Fanner (Dragon 314) and having those five levels stack with Crusader (or Warblade if applicable) levels for purposes of inspiring courage.
Background stuff that matters
-All 3.5, PF, and Dragon Mags allowed
-Homebrew can be submitted on a case-by-case basis, but I personally wish to use as much printed material as possible just for ease of use and so that my DM doesn't have to worry about reviewing stuff
-If it matters, the spellcasting requirment and progression in Heartfire Fanner can be subbed for psionics (say if the build used PsyWar instead of a spellcasting class)
-Two flaws allowed
-Abilities: 18, 17, 16, 16, 13, 10 (not necessarily in that order)
-Standard WBL
-Song of the White Raven applies to any PrC that has access to White Raven maneuvers/stances
-Using PF bardic performance, including the faster progression of Inspire Courage
-Using PF skill system, so HfH requirements adjusted to diplo 7 ranks and perform 7 ranks (and these ranks can be spent from any class, don't worry about cross-class skill rank maximums)
-Human race gets as +2 bonus to one stat (as PF), though I don't require human
Stuff that I personally require
-Some Crusader (more is better IMO for stacking Song of the White raven, though warblade is next best for that purpose)
-A level of heartfire fanner
-No actually bard levels (to maximize the benefit of music from HfF)
-Use of the Talenta Sharrash from ECS as printed (not the errata), without need for a proficiency feat (treated as being from an equivalent region in the campaign)
-Song of the White Raven
-Dawnflower Dervish PF Archetype for bardic performance, even though bardic performance is being granted by HfF (this allowed by DM). This doubles the bonus from inspire courage, but only applies to me.
Things I'd Like
-As SAD as possible (Charisma)
-A way to increases size for more reach (thinking either PsyWar expansion or Cleric enlarge person)
-Extra movement in case Slippers of Battle Dancing come into play (Hustle or Travel Devotion?)
-Attack of Opportunity focused in some way (doesn't have to be full lock down, even just 15' reach with Combat Expertise, but open to the idea of stand still/improved trip builds)
-Shape Soulmeld (Therapeutic Mantle) to increase healing from maneuvers/stances.
-Either Ruby Knight Vindicator (ignore flavor requirements) or Master of the Nine Prestige Class.
The biggest problem I face is not having a ton of experience with Tome of Battle mechanics. I've seen people propose some pretty wild advancements to maximize when maneuvers and stances are learned, but I've never fully understood them. That said, I have a few different concepts floating around my head that meet the above requirements. Here are some build skeletons:
Incarnate 2/Crusader 4/Ur Priest 2/Heartfire Fanner 1/Crusader 1/Ruby Knight Vindicator 9/Crusader 1
-Incarnate gives therapeutic mantle and a crown chakra bind, plus helps meet the UP will save requirement.
-Don't see a great option here for extra move actions for Slippers of Battle Dancing (though maybe that isn't a big deal if hit bonus is high enough and gauntlets of heartfelt blows are used for damage purposes).
-Potential DMM Persistent abuse, though I'm not sure enough feats are free for it
-9th level maneuvers and spells
Psychic Warrior 3/Crusader 4/Warblade 1/Heartfire Fanner 1/Warblade 4/Master of the Nine 5/Warblade 2
-Kalashtar Race pretty much required (PF conversion gives +2 to a mental stat, but keeps the extra power points, which would be enough to fuel expansion and hustle)
-Super heavy on feat requirements for HfF and MotN
-Gets a final warblade maneuver at 20th level, but maximum 8th level. Would I be better dropping 2 levels of crusader so that could be a 9th level maneuver, or even dropping a bunch of warblade in favor of more crusader (mostly went deep in warblade for the bonus feat)?
-I really don't know how best to order levels to maximize when I get maneuvers and stances, so any advice in that area is welcome.
Cloistered Cleric 2/Crusader 5/Heartfire Fanner 1/Ruby Knight Vindicator 10/Crusader 2
-DMM Persist easier to pull off since fewer required feats (and planning domain gives one for free), but only 10th level cleric casting.
-Travel devotion for mobility and knowledge devotion for fun
-Overall just more open feats to potentially make a full lock-down build if desired
-Again gets 9th level maneuvers
Anyway, those are just some of the ideas floating around in my head, but I'm having a hard time nailing down a full build. I know asking for a full build with feats and all is a lot, but I appreciate anything you folks are willing to offer up. Thanks!