This has been a recurrent problem at my table and it got me wondering if the players are really abusing this or if i'm the one with a problem and being unfair to them.
In the last session, the party was climbing up a 15ft well (of sorts). The exit hole on top was 5ft wide, so the PCs and animal companions had to climb or be pulled up one by one. One of the druids ordered his ape animal companion to climb and wait for him above.
There were already some PCs up, so there were no free 5ft squares available near the hole itself.
I said: "The ape climbs up the shaft easily and, up there, the animal moves to the closest square possible."
That square was 10 ft. away from the hole, already inside of a corridor to a nearby room, which means that anyone who hadn't climbed yet, couldn't see the animal.
Some other PCs climbed up, but the druid in question remained at the bottom of the well.
Suddenly, a bad guy appears 15ft in front of the ape. "Spot" checks all around and initiatives rolled (of course, the druid on the bottom of the hole didn't roll for Spot). Suprise round came and gone, warnings around the party, and on the initiative count of the druid down the shaft he goes and says:
"I order my ape to attack!"
- You order your ape to attack...?
- i ask - You're down a 15ft vertical well, the ape can't see you, you can't see your ape let alone the enemy you want the animal to attack. I can't let you do that. The animal will defend itself if attacked or threatened, but it won't take your orders from your current position. If you climb, so you can at least see the animal, and order it, it will be allowed a partial action.
I could see that many players didn't take my decision happilly and some even mentioned that to me after the session.
(Sorry for the long build-up)
Was this so wrong of a decision?!
As a rule of thumb, my criteria is: if the druid can't see the animal, or vice-versa, no command is possible.
I'm all for giving the players advantages for good gaming and/or wild stunts, but this kind of situations have been repeating themselves (this one was just the most recent example) and they sometimes borderline on abuse, IMO. The druid sistematically plays the animal as smarter than it is and/or as if reading the druid's mind, so i fear that, if i don't restrain it, i end up having another (silent) PC on the table...