That's.....that's not how entropy works.....
It /is/ easier for energy based defense than offence, because of how energy works. And because of entropy. In order to weaponize something, it needs range. So let's look at weaponizing pure energy, in the form of E+M. AKA lasers, EM pulses, and high level fields. In order to hit something with enough power to do damage with any of these things, you need a LOT of power. The range is dependent on the energy put in. However, in order to defend against an EM pulse, you need...well, a faraday cage. That works. A laser: plating works. Also: mirrors. Also, a small, but powerful, EM field can work. All options require significantly less energy. This is why lasers are being developed to destroy....missiles. AKA defensive uses. And high energy fields, well, if you have an opposing field, yours doesn't need to be as big.
All this is because the energy dissipates in the atmosphere. And because of the uncertainty principle. And a few other physics concepts I won't go into (they require vector calculus, not the best place for that)