Though feel free to argue with the DM about the reasoning as why you a -2. I believe it says something about how a longsword isn't just a bigger dagger (which is true) but I believe you're asking about a spear with a fancy blade on the end right?Well guess what a spear that a person half your height that is ten foot long is pretty much the same as one made for you, there might be some difference in the thickness but thickness doesn't matter much to staff/spear/javelin/stick when its 10 foot long.
Mainly I mention this because the size categories and associated stuff is a mess.