I'm in a relationship!
It's not really deep and complex yet, but he's a great guy, and we both really enjoy spending time together, and we each find the other very attractive..
We've seen each other three times, not counting phone and facebook and stuff like that. Two 'date'-dates, food and activities (movies and mini-golf and cards and stuff at his place) twice, and today he came over to my place for a cookout with a bunch of my friends before my regular gaming. He had to get going before gaming got started (he had another game he was getting to), but it was good to spend time with him around my friends, let them get a chance to meet him.
It's facebook-official (we're each 'in a relationship' in status, since I'm not out to my extended family quite yet), which means about as much as flipping those switches online, but it's definitely something.
I really like him, he's cool and nerdy, and I've already talked him into joining me at the gym in a week or so when we both get back from trips (I'm going to pittsburgh to work security for a convention, he's going to his brother's wedding as best man), which didn't actually take any 'talking into'.. So we're going to get muscley together.
It's too early to talk love, but I feel entirely entitled to say he's my boyfriend.