That reminds me... Brujon, how's your baby doing? Things going better between you and your SO?
The baby is awesome.
This is him 2 weeks ago. He was about 2,8kg in this picture, and he's now at 4 something.
He's got some massive cheeks now, just a bundle of cute.
About his mom... I could write a book about our discussions. Things are most definitely not well. She's not reasonable. She's totally unreasonable, about everything. About what she expects, about how she goes about demanding what she expects, about the way she acts, about everything.
She got into some massive fight with her father, and called me at 22:30 to come pick the baby up and give her a lift to her apartment (which is vacant because she's staying at her father's... Because she doesn't get enough from her job + pension to actually live on her own, and she gets help there). Well, wouldn't be a problem, except he's NOT well enough to go about strolling in a car at 22:30, he didn't finish taking his vaccines. Hell, in NORMAL conditions, i HAVE to visit him there because he CAN'T come here as would be normal in such situations.
I tell her exactly that. He's not big enough to be transported like that, he needs to rest, and he can't be exposed to cold. Moreover, nothing here is ready for him yet, because i bought everything for her house, and she didn't even have his things packed... I tell her to sit tight and sleep it off in her room, because her father wouldn't kick her out anyway, and that tomorrow if things were still bad i would pick him up.
Well. She totally FLIPPED on me, start calling me things, said she can never count on me, etc...I tell her, OK, if it's THAT bad, i'll go now. I'll just talk to my father and we'll both go, since everything doesn't fit in my car. She FLIPS EVEN MORE. "Don't involve your family! This is just between you and me! You always do that!" and blah blah blah. And then hangs up on me.
I'm like. WTF. And then i call her father. I ask him WTF is going on, and if i do need to come over and pick him up. He's pretty pissed, so he's rather rude, and say that it's family business and that he doesn't need to explain to me, but will do it anyway. I interrupt him, and say that i ABSOLUTELY do not want to meddle in how he runs his family, and that i JUST want to know if i need to come over, he says that i don't, and we hang up.
She starts texting me, even more pissed that i called her father. And then just announced she wouldn't have anything to do with me, changed her facebook status and didn't call me again. Which got pretty awkward when i went there the day before yesterday.
On the plus side, her father liked that i called him. A LOT. Which is good, because things were strained between him and me, because of all the discussions and a lot of shit.
Situation is pretty complicated. This covers barely one day and a half. Like i said, if i were to really rant about this, i'd need a book, not a single post ;(