Exalted is the Jedi of alignments, its rules make no damn sense and are full of shit. Poisons are bad, but ravages are cool because they only poison evil people. Totally different! You will be afraid, but fear leads to the dark side. It makes the Paladin code seem healthy and well adapted. But Champion of Gwynhryippogryph is the bees knees anyway.
I Guess My interpretation of Exalted is very....Loose.
Basically don't be a douche, and help when you can.
There is nothing wrong, with doing something that benefits both you and the people around you.
Expect payment from those who can, to make up for those who can't.
Worship good Deities
Heal the sick and wounded for next to nothing.
See things like that, Exalted doesn't mean jumping in at the first sign of trouble or being captain save a ho.
it just means being the best person you can be, help those when you can, and set as much of an example for others as you can.
Just be a genuinely good dude with no ulterior motives. That's all.
P.S If i Ever D.M I would waive the alignment for poisons so long as they
A.Disable and not kill
or
B.Are used to assassinate evil people.
Because hey, just because your good doesn't mean you have to be impractical.