Hey a_DM_g, do I know you from elsewhere? It's been some time since I was on this plane of existence.
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Okay, so more thinking on the no-equipment issue:
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Vow of Poverty. Usually a bad idea, but pretty decent for your specific case.
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Soulmelds. They occupy item slots, so you can leverage the fact that you don't care about item slots. They're not spellcasting, and the extra
Totemist attacks seem pretty interesting in terms of how they'd interact with your Incorporeal Touch ability. If that doesn't work out, you can still do some interesting stuff with skills via
Incarnate.
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Marshal. If your Charisma is decent, you will be a free-floating buff spell. Your party will like that. Your Thralls will like that. (Your Thralls will have no choice about liking it, of course.)
- Can you use homebrew stuff? I wrote a psionic Warlock variant ("
Psilock"), which is roughly balanced around Warlock, and would fill some holes in your utility, like giving you the equivalent of a free crossbow attack at low-levels. If your GM allows Warlocks, then it's pretty reasonable.
- How about some levels of Monk with the Kung Fu Genius feat? Monk is always nice as a passive defensive augmentation to a full-caster gestalt.
- Since your DM is allowing you to take Level Adjustment on only one side of your Gestalt -- which is unusual since LA is very powerful -- you can abuse this by stacking more templates once you finish your racial class progression. Templates which are good for you might be:
* Saint (BoEM, LA +2)
* Dark Creature (ToM, LA +1)