let's see... recent summary of events:
- wife found good job
- wife lost job (first time ever, and for being over-competant no less)
- wife found another good job
- wife lost that job (and she had a really bad feeling, so had to pull our kids out of that school)
- we suddenly discovered that we'd managed to get pregnant (she always says that's my fault)
- phlebotomist messed up a blood draw resulting in a blood clot the length of her arm in her body
- special meds are needed to not affect pregnancy cost ~$4000.00 without insurance
- ...which we found out when we went to go buy said meds that 'had-a-bad-feeling' job didn't pay the insurance, so everyone's insurance was cancelled, but they had continued to withdraw from paychecks... (that's slightly illegal by the way, as in the feds get to ignore the rule about corps protecting individuals, seize all the personal assets of everyone who did that and tosses rears in jail slightly illegal - research what happened to shut down that old 'american gladiator' show for reference)
- plus they got shut down by the state board of schools after the first week of school (all those teachers and students out on their ears... made the local news)
- that job finally paid up on the insurance
- we get the meds, seems to be working
- and then my wife has a miscarriage
- and needed surgery. made it through the surgery
we're still standing.
i'm feeling blessed today.
minor edits to focus ...Wow that sucks real bad.
Miscarriage is rough ; they don't tell you that
20% of pregnancies end that way.
Howeverin your (y'alls) case, the medical inconsistencies
are a real serious problem.
It isn't fun, but the way the system works means:
you call a Lawyer. You have a real case.